For professional reasons, friends, listeners, and students often ask me questions about building self-confidence, such as:
➤ Very confident at work, but too nervous to express himself on a date
➤ Chatting with friends can be eloquent, but panicking when speaking in front of the crowd
➤ He usually looks confident, but he actually cares about others
➤ Dare to speak your mind, unable to get along with your peers, and form a dilemma in interpersonal relationships
➤ Very enthusiastic about something, but no matter how hard you try, there is no improvement, and your confidence is exhausted
➤Envy the achievements of others, feel that they are worthless, and fall into a sense of inferiority compared with others. ”
even more serious
➤ Feeling that life is boring, feel numb after being bored, and don’t know the meaning of life
If you have a similar problem, I can tell you that you are not alone because you are not the only one who thinks this way, it is a problem that everyone has.
Why do you want to teach others to build self-confidence?
I have thought deeply about this question, and to me, it is not convincing if someone who is born with self-confidence, born in the winning group in life, teaches me what “confidence” means.
And if it is a person who has fallen to the bottom of the valley and can still cheer up after seeing the dark side of the world, such a person can tell you what “confidence” is, and it is closer to reality, and only has empathy for those with low self-esteem.
Yes, I used to be a person with absolutely no self-confidence. I have experienced every one of the self-confidence problems mentioned above:
◆ I used to be an otaku who had no self-confidence and dared not talk to the opposite sex. Every time I talked to the person I liked, my head would crash, but after I gained self-confidence, I was able to meet the people I wanted to know freely, and I succeeded. Found my Mrs.Right.
◆ I used to be a timid rookie salesman who was afraid to talk to customers, but after training, I can now talk and laugh without fear even in the boardroom of a large company when briefing the CEO.
◆ I used to be afraid to speak in public, and I always used evasion to solve difficult things, but now I can speak in front of hundreds of people, and it makes sense.
◆ I used to want to end my life several times because I couldn’t feel the passion of life, but after a turning point, I became a coach who helps others regain their confidence. (Please refer to my story: I personally changed my practice method)
The reason I can do this is not because I am gifted, in fact, like most people, I grew up in a normal family, looked normal, got average grades, and attended normal schools.
I wasn’t born with communication skills, and I wasn’t born with confidence. Everything I had was built through nurture. After I mastered the strategies and techniques of confidence, I improved myself through practice.
Therefore, I hope to teach these seemingly invisible and invisible things to everyone in the most simple and easy-to-understand way through systematic & individualized methods. No matter where your current level is, I can guarantee that as long as your motivation is strong enough, changing yourself is only a matter of feet.
Are your motivations strong enough? How much do you want to change yourself?
As long as you have enough motivation, “building confidence” can be a simple matter, and change and growth can come quickly.
I can see the friends here, congratulations, you have taken the most valuable first step, no matter whether we become attached or not in the future, I believe your life will be completely different from now on. You are welcome to join me. On the journey of confidence.